Conviction VS: Condemnation

How many times have you been criticized harshly and felt ridiculed, guilty or even worse... CONDEMNED! Now what did that accomplish though, at that point you only feel bad, no improvement, or even the response of wanting to make things better. There goes that vinegar, instead of the honey? So where's the sweet stuff???

Then how many times have you indeed felt poorly about a situation, but instead f a guilt trip someone sat down with you and explained what was wrong and helped you to improve and move forward. Better yet when you've prayed about something and you felt not only the sadness of what has been already done, but then you are given a second chance and the strength to move forward and given the ability to make a new example to show others, you actually WANT to change. THAT is called conviction

Condemnation = Fear, guilt, pain, shame
Conviction= Love, CONstructive criticism, prayerful correction

"Ideal VS: Contemplation"

Ideal is to Hope VS: Action through Contemplation

C'mon Atheist... Ideally God is good...
Manifestation with representation through ones revelation and explanation through their own examination of physicality. "Oh wait, that's Faiths job", Yet you have faith as a non-believer- it's just called "human hope" instead!

This may seem like random reasoning, but take the time to actually think just a little bit. Just bbecause someone claims to be an atheist, this doesn't mean they are bad people, not does it mean that simply because a person claims to be a "Christian" does that mean they are a good person. And people of non-belief still have hope, a well know common human emotion, much as Christians have faith. Faith is simply the evidence of things unseen, much like hope, just labeled differently. That's all...

ThanksFriending

Thanksgiving plus friends, equals "Thanksfriending..." the new Bondo Term. For this Thanksgiving I have decided to go visit some family and leave my home town for some clean air and refreshmint, but before I travel on my journey halfway accross the great big state of Texas, I am first going to go out with a few of my frinds I know who may not have the average family setting for Thanksgiving. People must realize that just becuase You or I may have family to visit with and homes to go home to, there are those who do not. And during the holidays it can become emotionally straining and frustrating to others, while we may have all the attributes of the happy faily. SO today for lunch I went with a dear friend of mine to have a cozy hour of comfort and relaxation as she broke away for vacation at lunch, and now for dinner I am with a friend even as I type this who is needing some attention and TLC from a kind heart. I must say that talking to these people not only gives me even more reason to be Thankful for the fact I do have family to attend the holidays with, but also gives me hope that even though I may be away from these folks; atleast they know that they are thought of during this holiday season and not forgotton. So next time you get holiday cheer, spread some with those who don't have all you do! And if you're one of those without, know that you DO matter. Period!!!!!

Just a thought for Consideration

So there I was reading everyone else's bulletins and messages and I came to the realization that I haven't ever really written one of these, so here it is. No, I don't have a survey or long list of questions, maybe just a few points of interests for various Bondo connoisseurs out there. The other day I was with some friends and they mentioned how blogging was an awesome opportunity to meet people, and build relationships. At first my attitude was, "oh really?" I thought of this as more of a lazy way of not being social, but then I had to take a step back and remember where exactly I have come from. I wasn't always the public "go getter", so Maybe this whole socialization thing through a non-public atmosphere is a step up for some folks. It just seems that from time to time you simply need that human touch. Whether it be a hug or a heart felt hand shake. I have a friend at work, where everyday when at the end of the day I know we'll have a hug and I'll get to go home knowing we survived yet one more day. It's nice, but for some folks I guess when they get home and they see that one message in their inbox that IS their hug. A simple photo sent or a goofy ad from a fellow bloggers might just be all they needed that day. Why not... It's just another one of those Crazy Bondo Spontaneous thoughts, That's all!

Original Intention

Write, sure I would absolutely love to write. About what, about anything, but if I do what will be the out come. It seems that anytime I say something or do anything it gets taken the wrong way or manipulated so strangely or for the worse that I no longer feel free enough to say anything. People want to twist and turn things around to adhere to their motives or agenda, and for the most part that was not my original intention. SO the next time someone asks me to write, I think I'll respond with "why should I', it seems you've already written it for me, or you're at least on your way to changing the meaning in the first place"... don't judge someone Else's words, because inside those words lies their heart, and if they are willing enough to post themselves in the world like that, then allow them to do so. Take what they say for what it is and do not add your predisposition of slander and liable, that's not your job. So Maybe next time I write I'll say something I truly mean, versus what you think I think...

Random Thought

Guess I got over my happy high, but it's weird. It's like I know something AWEsome is about to happen but I don't know what. Like an explosion in my own life of prosperity and grandeur, but what? Not necessarily financially or monetary, just something great. It's weird in a fun way. It keeps me happy when I shouldn't be, and out of trouble if and when I am tempted, which isn't very often. (one of the good things about being boring, not really that much temptation, but the things that are tempting are kinda major, dang it!) but like I was saying/typing, it's something good. No fair I wanna know, I wanna know now. Patience may be virtuous, but dang it, I'm not a very virtuous lady. Then again I have been mistaken for being too resilient (but that's according to Kristen) which flaws me in the end cause it means I put up with too much from too many for too long and end up damaged in the end. I'm just waiting on some spoils... And that's my thought for the day...